Tonight he started the our marriage is over bs...i tried to walk away but he kept at it..he is emotionally abusive..he said he never should have married me and the last 10 years have been miserable..and I am delusional.We did everything together..ran races..went to festivals,hiked,biked..graduated together..so many things however, I have grown tired of the bs..him calling me a bad mother, saying I ruined our credit..everything,we grew up too differently, I had a pretty normal childhood and he had a childhood I could not even imagine. he said so many horrible things to me tonight like how could I get lawyers involved he wants a dissoultion and wants to coparent..he could not even call the kids this weekend to say hi..when I asked why he did not want to his d this weekend he said because i was being manipulative..using them to feel bad. he said that he does not trust me at all..I have never cheated..never left..he could not say why he does not trust me..he said he cannot stand being around me and any woman that hears her marriage is over should get it but I am delusional and need medication..he said I have never loved him and I am selfish yet back in march we were still hugging and kissing each other..he said that he can see me with another man and that if he could find me one he would introduce me that is how done he is...he said that he wants to co-parent and if I did not agree to it then the kids will end up hating me one day..I told him to leave..I said he is done hurting me..I am serious about this..there is no marriage busting..he is never coming back..he is just done. he said our marriage is over..and I believe every word of it..to say he wants to introduce me to other men and to say he can see me with someone else..he is done. no saving this..now what???
