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I would never suggest you try to cut your X out of the boys' lives.


Why not? It's what I'm thinking about? LOL. smirk

Yes, the boys and I had a pretty good weekend.

The only fly in the ointment is xW. She and I have again been trading barbs via email over her shenanigans with the preschool and OM. She is insisting I am insane and that she notified me back in February of all pertinent information. It's all B-S, as even my L asked for the information and did not get anything but verbal estimates and no documentation.

I am struggling hard with forgiveness right now. I just don't seem to ever be able to turn the corner on how much xW's betrayal has hurt me -- everything she does today just keeps the wounds still open and fresh. Our bible study group is beginning a new series on Betrayal and Forgiveness this week -- I am feeling I really need to hear it.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.