I would never suggest you try to cut your X out of the boys' lives.
Why not? It's what I'm thinking about? LOL.
Yes, the boys and I had a pretty good weekend.
The only fly in the ointment is xW. She and I have again been trading barbs via email over her shenanigans with the preschool and OM. She is insisting I am insane and that she notified me back in February of all pertinent information. It's all B-S, as even my L asked for the information and did not get anything but verbal estimates and no documentation.
I am struggling hard with forgiveness right now. I just don't seem to ever be able to turn the corner on how much xW's betrayal has hurt me -- everything she does today just keeps the wounds still open and fresh. Our bible study group is beginning a new series on Betrayal and Forgiveness this week -- I am feeling I really need to hear it.