You don't have to go down this road. There is an alternative. You could make your marriage better. Your wife is not having an affair. You don't really need to kick her out of the house for having a male friend on FB.
Do you want to improve your marriage? Go to the website, www.helpourmarriage.org and read about the four stages of marriage. You'll know which stage you're in. Look for a Retrouvaille weekend near you. There are a lot offered this month and next. Ask her to go with you. It is not marriage counseling. It is more of a weekend retreat for couples to work on their communication skills with each other.
Retrouvaille saves marriages. But it does more than that. It helps you to move from an unhappy marriage to a happy one. It worked for me, and several other people on this website. You owe it to your boys to try to have a happy marriage and not just give up when the going gets tough.
