Dear LH, After reading your reply, I found the courage to confront H about the porn sites. Of course he made some excuse about it being an accident that they actually got his address and started sending him e-mails, etc. He denied it being a habit. Anyway at least I had the chance to tell him how it made me feel hurt and angry especially due to what we're experiencing now with the no sex thing. He bought me flowers last night and baked a cake for me with the girls. I think he's trying but just doesn't know why he feels no sexual attraction to me. We have our counselling session tomorrow and I plan to confront C about why we aren't addressing the sex thing more. Does anyone have any advice on more books about slowly bringing physical intimacy back into your life when it's been gone for so long? Starving
