First let me say...glad to read that you are keeping a great perspective on this whole thing and a PMA!! Awesome!
Though I have not done much reading on MLCers since May or so...I think its great if he thinks you agreee with him. Basically, you are validating his feeling. I would agree with Stuck on this.
And...... I think he is expecting you to argue the point and say/feel/think that he is doing the wrong thing.
What a 180 to just say "hmm....you have a point Husband". I think it throws him off somehow. Definately, you will have him wondering....
Remember, you control this...he just gave you the letter....big deal....
How you respond to it, how you use it will be the real challege. Don't say or act based on the fear of losing him.
Honey, be strong. Sorry I'm getting to writing so late. I had a late night.
Continue your own journey in this mess, MJ, don't forget...it's not about him! At the end of the day, stay true to you. What you do or say isn't going to keep or lose him - in my opinion....he has to go thru his little journey...and in the meantime....so do you!
