Hi Corri, No, I don't think he's been having an affair but he has been visiting some "girly" sites on the web I've discovered. Does this count?! I don't know, he just doesn't think it's a big deal that we don't have sex and figures I'm overreacting. He says he loves me and doesn't want to end the marriage. The "shrink" doesn't encourage divorce and seems to want us to try and work things out but H still can't get close to me. The other night when I tried the advice of Michele W.D. and the "challenge" thats posted on this site (approaching your mate with love, etc.) and I tried to kiss him, etc. after we drank a bottle of wine and were having a quiet time on the couch, he told me it was a turn-off and pushed me away. I cried for 2 days! That kind of rejection is permanently scar ring I think. Thanks again for your time! This sort of stuff is hard to discuss with anyone I know.
