Sounds like you did very well with a tough conversation...again.
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I am sad because I can see myself being at peace with all this.
Yeah. I know. I have felt the same way.
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She said, you have so many good qualities - I could have loved you forever, if not for the intimacy. I said, we've had sex regularly, etc., and she said that's not it. I said tell me, and she can't put it into words. Don't know, more passion, talking more, etc.
This is a BIG deal. I suspect what she's talking about is her perception you did not let her completely into your being, your soul - your fears, dreams, worries. Intimacy is really bearing your soul to someone who has teh power to hurt you like no one else. It is a privilege you bestow on only THE closest to you. How was this part of your R?
