Despite all that is going on and taking form to happen, I highly suggest you find a route to realese your pent up anger at it. Maybe you are doing so by posting it here (which is absolutely fine), but you need to find an outlet for it, get it out before it trips a fuse soon enough.
Dday,
Thanks for the feedback. Posting here, going to the gym and debriefing with a few close friends is how I find my release. Even still, if I think about things long enough, yeah I still get pi$$Sed. Not enough to blow a gasket though.
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I tell you what tho, with your W and OM on the rocks, brother I'd be making myself out to look completely over her if I were you.
Agreed. And that is precisely what I am doing. Keeping cool, being polite when I have to talk to her, but reserved and disinterested. I've started thinking recently like a bachelor again- about how things were in the past -before I M my W- when I'd break up with a G/F, eventually I'd find another one just as cute and sweet in her own way as the previous one. It'll be kind of the same thing again to some degree if I do D from my W. I know there are a lot of good women out there who would appreciate me for who I am and what I have to offer. So this seems to help a little bit.
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She lives in the aftermath of her own mess. I've said it before and I'll say it again, it has to get really hard sometimes to stare your kids in the face and know you are the responsible party for forever messing up the rest of their lives.
Absolutely. I agree with you 100% regarding the kids. What's advantageous about my sitch is that all three of my kids mostly look like me, especially the eyes. No doubt who the father is, plus if my W ever hooks up with OM, he'll stick out like the proverbial genital wart that he is. Oh woops, there I go again being judgmental. What is it about your posts that get the better of me Dday? Anyways my W has and is going to continue to have three sets of my eyes looking at her every step of the way and beyond.
Thanks for stopping by.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
