One of our perennial issues is me being able to get enough time and attention from him, esp. in competition with the time he spends on the computer. At present, the balance is working. I suspect it's the sort of thing that will require continual, periodic monitoring and adjustment with us.
Of greater concern to me is that when someone or something tries to pull him out of a project he's perseverating on, he's snappish and scowling about it. Tolerable when it's me b/c I know it's not about me. Less tolerable when it's kidlet.
Example not related to computer: the 'no talking during movies' rule because it breaks his concentration.
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