John,

This is the one answer that no one can give you. It's intensely personal, and only you can decide if you're done or not. I myself waffled back and forth and back and forth no more than a half a dozen times.

It's a serious, life-altering decision.

I will ask you only two questions, which may help:

1. Are you still in love with her?

2. Do you believe she is a woman of quality and character, that you think can add to your life and help form your daughter's?

Whatever your decision is, I do think you need to make it.

Puppy