xH arrived to pick up D13 about a half hour before she got home from choir. He was going to run to the drugstore, but we ended up standing and chatting (he didn't want to come into the house, and now I'm all itchy from being mosquito buffet). I don't think we've done that since he left, except right after mediation. Just talked about D13, his family, the recent trip to St. Louis. He thought I got new glasses--he hasn't looked at me since I got these, I guess, back in May. I don't feel all warm and fuzzy or anything, but it's kind of a relief to have had a normal conversation because I'm going to have to deal with him for the rest of D's life. And he's going to have to deal with me...and it's better that he talks to me like a human being rather than someone he has to avoid or ignore. Probably helped that it was dark outside!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012