As usual, we are at similar points. H (soon to be ex-H) is just so angry and it is all directed at me. I have cut off any verbal contact - it is all through emails and texts. I have NEVER been spoken to the way he has spoken to me lately. None of us deserve this treatment.
I can't believe that your H got married. I am so sorry. You and I ask the same questions - aren't they supposed to be happy now...now that they have found their "true love"? It is just running....they must hate themselves a great deal.... I am expecting H to get married as well - and the grave consequences that will happen if he does. Both girls have said that they will never speak to him again if he marries her. Both are in such pain, but deny it. That is the only time anymore that I get angry with him - when he hurts them.
And using again. Well, I guess this OW is a wonderful influence on him. Sounds like a great relationship. I guess the question is...do you think he has hit bottom? Can he go any lower? Just when I think H has hit bottom, he proves to me that he can go lower.
I do not discuss my H anymore with anyone. I'm am just tired of talking about him. And honestly, some of what I would have to say is just unbelievable...so I am better off keeping quiet. I look at him now and really wonder what I saw in him - I am having difficulty remembering the good.
Oh, Peace - I'm sorry for the pain that you are in right now. But it does sound like you are continuing to do what is best for your kids and that you are remaining strong.
