You keep writing again about how your W acts this way and that, then say that you are not watching her. Yes you are.
My W is the same way. She's lost alot of joy in her life, but is that my problem? No. You keep doing things for YOURSELF. Not because you want a reaction from her.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.