Hi All! This is my first post so I'm a little nervous.. I am a 39 year old woman who's been married for 71/2 years. We have 2 daughters aged 3 & 6. My husband has always been less interested in sex than me but since I stopped initiating sex 4 years ago, we have not been intimate. I'm nearing the end of my rope. We've been in counselling for 6 mos. but it doesn't seem to be helping much. I don't want a divorce but I don't want a marriage like this either. Is there any hope after this long? Have others gone this long?