I got the same talk from my W last week. She even brought the paperwork with after not seeing each other for two months. I let her know that the L's would handle everything and I wouldn't look at the paperwork. I too still want my M to work but am facing the facts that she will probably file this week or next. I am going to let her do all the work. It may cost more in the end but the whole thing is more of my stand and about the only thing I have had any sort of say in over the past few months. Some come out of it when they don't get off so easily and they finally realize what they are doing. Best of luck. The next day was worse for me than after the talk.
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33