Right. I'm pretty sure she doesn't look at it as stealing though. H convinced her that he wasn't leaving the M for her. He moved out first before he started the A (officially). Apparently she didn't hear that age old caveat that when a man says his marriage is over and he's getting a D soon, to run like you're fleeing a burning building!

My red heels are actually strappy sandals so if we don't meet soon it will be too cold to wear them. Speaking of which, I've not heard from either L nor H since our canceled hearing two weeks ago. Two weeks of peace!

And listen to this hilarious dream I had last night:

H and I are sitting on the bed. First time we've seen each other in months. He asks me how I am and what I'm thinking about. I'm exhilarated that he's finally focusing on me and now I get to say everything I've wanted to say for 2 years. I tell him that if only he had told me he was unhappy, if only I had known - that I agonize over the year before he left - what did I miss? Why didn't I see any signs? What could I have done differently?

Then I ask him - what are you thinking about? He says Jingle Bell Rock. What? Jingle Bell Rock, the song. You're thinking about Jingle Bell Rock, that's all?! Yep.

I don't think it takes much to interpret this one. And of course that tune has been in my head all day long!


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10