The adventure chronicles

[The Wifey]

Well, she emailed me today at work and apologized. She said: I have been unfair to you and I want to apologize. Please forgive me for getting upset about your lady friend and for calling you and bothering you.

Hot and cold, hot and cold just like my whole marriage has been. I still am going to press with the divorce I think. Not much else to work out except the logistics of the house and visitation for my daughter. Am I missing something? I know it's my decision but I am asking for input.

Should I even entertain trying to work this out? I usually take a long time to make a decision but when I do it's final. I did feel bad today, I know it's because of how she was feeling, I understand that and I really am a nice person. I am however trying to press forward with logic not emotion and embrace life as I should have been the whole time. My daughter is my number one concern at this point.

So, does anyone have any input? Puppy--I know you've followed along for a while and I value your input. Hoop--your insight and guidance have really made a difference and helped me to see straight. Gucci--what can I say? You know what you're talking about. You are the man! Anyone else?

Thanks so much, I'm exhausted.

It would not be easy or simple to work through this, but it would be doable if you were both committed to doing so and had competent counseling.

But, I firmly believe that no one can tell someone to be done. And, if the person decides that they are done, then they should be supported.

Sorry, I can't flip the coin to decided this, but think maybe you could sit down with W and a C and just explore where you are. Or maybe just you and a C? Six months does feel like an eternity, but compared to the years you have left in your life, its only a heartbeat.