One point that I would recommend to do differently...
Quote:
H asked if I would like him to check on the dogs on his way home after work that night. I told him I would appreciate it (I'm sitting for my M and S's dogs and also have mine) if he could.
Answer...
"No thanks. I already have them taken care of." Then change the subject or cut off the conversation... I would make it a point to tell him to never mind taking care of the dogs next chance you get. You found someone else to do it. (find someone else BEFORE you tell him this) You can't get a man to pursue you if you make it too easy. No challenge...
You are on the right track...
He has to feel like he "may" have lost you. (notice the word "feel") It is up to YOU to convince him of that.
I like your answers of "we will play it by ear" That is excellent. Going out dancing and around music and social interaction... Excellent....
You did have him wondering.(based on the way he offered to watch tv, watch the dogs and such ) KEEP him wondering. IT is your best chance.
