"Back off, tell him he can do what he wants and that you will let him go" etc. etc.. (like people do on here)
then she panics in less than a day because she wonders how that last email came across to you. She then offers the standard apology because she finds someone who gave her THAT advice. (like people do on here)
then she will say.. "He will think that I don't love him if I don't try".. on and on and on..
Now that isn't working so she will try other things.. Leave you alone for a couple days or so, being your friend, saying she is sorry. Long letter listin her faults...
Gee, you read enough of the posts on here. She will be exactly like people on here are. Roller coaster of emotions trying to find something that works on you to give her a small bone to feel some hope...
IF it was me... Divorce baby.. It is over. I don't want a woman that makes a relationship so much work. It just isn't worth it. Who knows. Maybe you will get back together in a couple of years. I would tell her I have nothing left to give an proceed on with the divorce. I would quit going back and forth over it. (decisive)
