Thank you for your opinions, however, FIB, the reason I am here is to save my marriage, I know that I have to change and grow from this and this is a great by-product of this process. But right now, I know that I truly love my W and that I have made mistakes in our marriage and that my real goal right now is to get my wife back.
The steps to getting to that goal are working on the things about me that I want and have to change. And I am making progress in these areas. I am just concerned that no matter what I do, no matter how I change, my W has no will to work things out and that scares the crap out of me.
I will simply take it one day at a time, and hope that she sees the changes I am making and will one day find it in her heart to forgive the mistakes I made and see the mistakes she has made.
Me: 39 W: 34 S:6 M:11 years T: 13 Years B: 07/2009 Possibly BUSTED: 11/2009
