Thanks for the input K. Why would I move out, well IO guess part of it is being the nice guy. The other part is giving the kids more time with their Mom than they would have if she moves to an apartment. They are quite attached to her and love her dearly and it would provide them two homes to live in, instead of one home and an apartment. I of course would just love to have them 100% of the time, but that is not going to happen.
But there is a part of me that strongly agrees with what you say - make her work to be the one to leave the marriage, it is the choice she made afterall.
I've found that in the breakup of a marriage, none of these decisions are easy ones that we find ourselves in.
