A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

About goals....

I need some new goals.

My previous ones were:

1) Demonstrates in word or deed that he is happy to see me.

2) Initiates conversation with me via phone, email and/or in person.

3) Invites me to do something with him, even if just a movie at home.

4) Initiates affectionate touches - e.g. hugs.

All of these have been met in spades. What can you folks think of for new ones? I'm having trouble with magnitude. I'm thinking of:

1) Extended cuddle in the hammock (elsewhere is ok).

2) Initiates a kiss, even if on the cheek.

3) Invites or allows me to sleep in the Master bed.

4) Asks me on a 'date' - no kidlet.

I'm wondering if those are too big of a jump? If so, what are some good in-between ones?

First off, I mis-spoke in the post above. DR does not call these goals as one cannot set goals for another person. They are 'signs' that things are getting better. At any rate...

1) Extended cuddle - CHECK

4) Date - I initiated it, but because it was our anniversary I think it counts. - CHECK


So that leaves me with the following (renumbered):

1) Initiates a kiss, even if on the cheek.

2) Invites or allows me to sleep in the Master bed with him.

and I'll add two more..

3) Offers me space in the Master closet.

4) Says "I love you" to me.