trying hard to figure things out

[MichelleLT]

For your protection, get that account closed or changed. Either so he can't use it, or so your card isn't on it. I know it's only movies, but that goes for everything.

There are SO many cases on here where the WAS goes through depression/crisis mode and tries to curb it with indulgences. Which can be expensive. Like my STBXH, who blew through all our savings plus racked up $9000 in credit card debt.

They won't acknowledge birthdays, anniversaries, or any special occasions. If they did, they would have to remember the good times, and while they are in WAS mode / MLC / Depression / all of the above, they need to justify what they are doing not remember the good times.

It still hurts though. I know.

Just remember you have a world of friends here who understand.

((((((HUGS)))))))