And...many piecers suffer continually with recurrent indiscretions and issues with lack of trust only to find themselves back where they were months or years later.
This is so true just when you think you are there, bang, setback back to square one.
My view now is that you have to give the me the M a chance even if it is terminal and you get the ILYB speech, but if you fail then the M gets a decent burial. (as in your case K)
I think armed with the knowledge I have now and what I have seen of a WAW I think I would bail and get the hell out of there.(John I quote you again). But in my sitch I have persisted and persisted and I think I am half way there to a decent M. So its up to the individual to see how long thet can hang in in there. BBJ is the next in line, she can hang on in there for as long as she can and it may work, they'll be set backs along the way but it may work but only she can walk that road.
Finally
Originally Posted By: Kalni
I want to start a thread in newcomers and just TELL everybody that #1 there is probably (99%) another person involved
I would change this to 100% or why else would we be here.