I am going to make the call and not sleep in our bed. I will watch to see how she reacts to this. I will make it no big deal though. In fact, likely best to be in the rec room just prior to bed time and simply go to bed (well...futon).
Great wording on the apology. Of course, I will use my own words. It needs to be genuine. Now is not the time, but again, I will watch for the right moment.
I originally thought playing scrabble on fb was acting "as if". I suppose not. I simply will not take my turn. And I now make the promise to creat space effective tonight when I get home from work.
I was thinking today....tomorrow will be only 2 weeks since she walked out. I have to stop expecting results quickly. Patience...........