My thoughts exactly on the bed thing. Healing that hurt is essenital to a positive outcome. I also need to deal with the guilt somehow and I would think at some point find a way to apologise - not that it will actually make anything better, but she needs to know I am truly sorry.
She has a real thing about invasion of her personal space. She literally needs space right now.
Why did I send the racy text? Somtimes I am plain old stupid. At least that is one mistake I know I will never make again.
