Emailed H mid-day today. Light and short and 'just business'.
---------------------- Subj: Quick check in
Just making sure I have the plan straight...
You will be coming home at the regular time today - 5 - 6 pm, right? Is an easy supper ok - spaghetti, again? If you're planning to visit a store, I would make garlic bread, or maybe even bruschetta, if I had the right kind of bread to do it with and maybe a head of garlic. No need to make a special trip, though. Just if.
I will pick up kidlet at school today.
Cheers!
Dia ----------------------
He called about an hour and a half later. His voice was bright and cheery - he'd forgotten I was to pick up kidlet today. Spaghetti was fine, but no, he wasn't planning on stopping at the store. Was that ok?
Sure it was. We'll just go with what we have.
Then this note of hesitancy crept into his voice. He was planning to game with his buddies tonight. Was that ok?
Translation (and yes, I'm mind reading): Does this whole cuddle business mean I suddenly forfeit my autonomy to a whining shrew who assumes that Doing H Stuff means I don't love her?
Dia (happy and breezy): Sounds great! See you tonight.
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Last edited by Dia; 09/08/0908:50 PM.
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