If the main problem is that she felt you violated her in her own bed then I think you should honor her request to not have you in it. JMO. If you want to heal that particular hurt, then the bed thing becomes pertinent.
Wondering something...why, after all this, did you send her a "racy" text? What was the point? What did you expect to happen? I find that an odd thing for you to have done under the circumstances. Just curious.
