I don't have much to offer, as Stronger and Gucci have given you incredibly wise advice.
The only thing I would add, is that, we each take what's offered to us, and adjust, append, delete, as per our personal take on our situation. The two parts I would STRONGLY agree with are that you're being cornered too soon, and that she needs to know that you are truly not sure where you are right now. No need to rush, right? If you choose to work on this, it's YOUR wants/needs, and not just 180's of behaviors/issues that she has a beef with...
Head up, smile, and be proud. You're an awesome man.
Gucci and Stronger: You are both very wise. I'd like your input someday.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
