Hi, Oz - wow, the cuddles are certainly going around, aren't they? Must be something in the water. wink

Yes - No R talks. Be vague, be busy, be GALing, be 'taking some time to think'. Let him pursue, and play hard to get.

Re: the kiss - perfectly normal, and yes, if we've been hurt for a long time or feel uncertain or unsafe, the body quashes those feelings and responses.

IMHO - use his away time to read up on Love Languages if you haven't already. Eventually, he could read the same. One of the possible reasons for no reaction to the kiss is an empty love tank.


The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
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