and I called the mediator today to discuss setting up another appointment, and he had some interesting things to say. We ran out of time, as I called him with no appointment and only had a couple of minutes, but I am calling him back on Thursday to continue and setup the next appointment.
First, I asked outright, did he tell my W she should cancel the last appointment as she had told me? He said no, of course not, she called on her own and canceled it. Now, it may well be that when they talked he said that I may not still be ready, but she had made the appointment anyways, and then canceled it on her own the day before we were scheduled to be there.
Interesting.
Now, though, I'm off with the boys to the Red Sox game tonight, and going to just enjoy that. I left my W a note on the counter this morning. "I won't be home for dinner." I have not been home for dinner a few times before, but not left her a note. I felt for courtesy, I should at least do that, and for mystery, not fill in the 'why'.
Tomorrow, I am working from home, and taking d8 to her first day of school.
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M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
