Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

[kissak]

ok guys....My H has really lost it. BUT thats nothing new I guess!

He has been very quiet today. I did ask him if he was feeling better earlier because when he called the kids yesterday he mentioned he wasnt feeling good...so all he said was "not well".

He was short and not very talkative...not like him. Well, then at 2:30 he shows up to get our son for the evening! ok....first off, he doesnt get them early! It's alway at 5 or later on Tuesdays...2nd, he got off early...took a half a vaca day for some reason. 3rd....he was very lost, depressed looking.

Im concerned, asked him what was wrong...he said Nothing.

Ok, thats a lie right there. He was not his usual self....then he all of a sudden gets in my face and starts putting his hands all over me!! I told him to get his hands off of me and to stop several times...then he went and sat outside!

SOmething is severly wrong! When our son got off the bus, my H just stood there, staring off into space! It was so weird. He was so weird! I have learned from my H that Sex is alot of the time a way of forgetting about his problems and stuff...he is looking for something to make him feel better.

He wont open up and talk to me about it...It must have to do with the ex OW....I can understand him not talking to me about it, he probably doesnt want to bother me with it for fear it will hurt me...Im sure he is still mourning their broken relationship...but he just seemed so lost today...

I really wish he would go back on his meds....

Weird, last night he texted me and asked what my fb status was about???? Ok he is not my friend on there anymore because I took him off, but he still is so caught up with me and what I do that he still looks....

Ugh! sometimes I just cant figure him out! COMMUNICATION???

OH well, no need to sweat over it, right? Just would like some insight about why he gets this way sometimes. Cuz this hot then cold personality he has lately is aggravating me!