LostforWords,

Here is something for you to think about. Why is your wife looking for anyone to pay attention to her, but you? It seems like she is starving for someone to be attracted to her and when she doesn't get it she becomes as you say "moody". Do you know what that is all about? How old is she? The fact that she says "that she doesn't greally think she wants a divorce...just some time and space", sounds to me like MLC talk. Is she looking to sow some wild oats and then come back and settle down with you? If that is her plan, how are you with all of this? Is that what you want to settle for yourself?

S4H