BillM's new thread

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So why did you tell her where you were at? Couldn't you just say you where out with a friend and leave it at that.

This, my continined friendship and respect for her, seems to mean a lot to her.

So, in terms of concequences. The thing she's talked about worrying most about is "losing me".

If this is true then she will have to be the one that comes to you. Her going off to another man will not keep your friendship. If she is afraid to lose you pulling away will motivate her to come to you.

Really look at what the other man has that she was wanting. Is it his strength and confidence? Or is it to have someone to talk to?

You stood up to her. Being too friendly now will only make you look weak and she is not looking for you to be weak she wanted you to stand up to her and she is only going to test you.