So while I work that out - here's my next question.
DR says that in the case of OM - figure out what's attractive about this person. W made the statement, here's someone what wanted to talk to her and pay her attention.
So, how do I do that and at the same time, distance, not spend time chatting with her, etc? I've got two conflicting things here.
As much time as I spent at home being miserable this weekend, when she got home I wasn't there - out GALing. Spent time with my buddy - he wanted to go to - you guessed it - Guitar Center, so we went to the other one in the area. Then we went to Hooters - and I chose that only because it's a VERY atypical place for me to go. Had a secret chuckle when I told W about that.
But I need to figure out now how to make W feel like I'm paying her attention without pursuing, without making her feel like things are "OK" - and she does seem to seek me out now to talk.
