I'm glad to see that the hearing is over and done with. No matter what happens, you are going to be okay. He's too busy worrying about today and spending money to make himself and the other one happy. You, on the other hand, will come out ahead because you are using your knowledge, skills and abilities to keep ahead of debt, etc. You will be okay once things settle down.

I'm very glad to see that you appear to be okay.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.