I'm just shaking my head again. So much for her "intention" of working with me with honesty and respect - her reply to my email about conduct around the kids (a cut a paste of my email).

She had text me last nite and called me again at 7:30 AM this morning asking if she could have the boys on Sunday for a couple of hours. I told her that I couldn't talk as I was running off to a meeting.

Fortunately Stronger came to my rescue again and helped me wordsmith some stuff, asking her what did she have planned with the boys. She never responded.

My buddy called me up shortly afterwards asking if the boys were coming to Sunday's b'day party for his son. I told him that I hadn't heard about it. He said his wife just called him saying that she told that I wasn't letting my boys' mother know what was going on - basically being difficult again. He said that I was welcome to come and didn't really care who came with boys as long as the boys were able to come. I just told him that I didn't know about the party, but I know my boys would love to come so we will see them on Sunday. I sent him and his wife an email as confirmation that we will attend as well as an apology for not getting back to them as I just found out.

I also sent an email to the boy's mother (aka WAW) that I had talked to my buddy and told him that we would be attending and will see her there.

This is just a brutal reminder of how she has been spreading half truths and lies this past year. Basically blaming me on all the "bad" stuff.

Of course I never got a reply from her. Guess I should be glad.


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13