GG, Have a pleasant day tomorrow....Happy Birthday a day early. Leave the mlc issues at the door and do something extra special for yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
No expectations that my wasband (like that new word?) will remember at all. My girlfriend who is staying with me woke me up with a rose, a cup of decaf, and a gift card from VS (for my new life)....
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
Love the new word GG although I like to think of mine as RASbund.. runaway, he couldnt get out of here fast enough when councellor suggested "trial separation"
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
Well mine wanted to find out what it was like to live on his own, as we married young and he went from living at home with parents to living with me! Funny that he moved out of his brothers to his new flat on monday, and today I suspect he has an OW.. OWN obviously means something totally different in his vocabulary!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
We got in late last night (this morning) so I'm running a bit slowly today. Will check my email later and see if we can set up a belated celebration!
Love wasband! I have a friend who uses that term for her XH.
You should take every advantage of living alone and answering to no one too. I thought I was doing a good job with that but now find myself wishing I had taken it one step further. Just make lemonade out of lemons!
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
