Keep in mind this: Believe nothing they say and only half of what they do. He’s going to make you the bad guy every chance he gets. If you are the bad guy, then no one will blame him for leaving you. My H did such a good job of this to his parents, that now his parents are one of his biggest obstacles in coming back. He made me sound like a complete whack job who was holding his child over his head. He even told his parents that I was harassing him at work, calling all day long so that if he got fired, they would think it was my fault. In reality he and OW were carrying on at work and they were called into the “principal’s office” twice. The second time they were told to cool it, he told his parents that I was making him crazy at work. Simply and utterly NOT true. Basically, my point is this: Everything is your fault and it should be because you can’t do anything right. So be aware and take this as another reason to avoid him if you see he’s got stinky face or is obviously in a bad mood.
