A whimp, wouldn't be worried that other people saw him as a whimp, it wouldn't even cross his mind.
Survive these next few months, swallow all that you can, survive with as much as you can intact.
After this, is your time to truely lead by example.
Your fears while founded, are uneeded by your course of future action and life.
Down the road, when you're having a beer with your adult son, and he asks, "Dad, why did it seem like you rolled over for mom alot?"
You can answer honestly.
"I needed to get the best arrangement from the state in visitation for you and your sister, sometimes when life gives you a sh1t sandwhich you just have to chew through it."
He can look at you with understanding and admiration, cause if anyone understands your crazy ex-wife it would be your children, and then you can add, "Plus, I never had an air tight alibi, and the primary suspect always needs an air tight alibi."
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
