Sorry to here about hubby's behavior in front of son.
I know that DCBHM is dealing with a bipolar wife. He is in the midst of a divorce. He seems to have read a lot about bipolar and a has good grasp of it. Maybe you could get a hold of him in the infidelity section.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)