If you are not going to file, talk to your L and find out if there are steps you can take to protect yourself financially. I'm really afraid Dan could use this time to hide/manipulate/move/steal community assets. There may be some way to freeze things such that he can't do it. If nothing else, it makes a lot of sense to find out what's there, so that you know if it goes missing. I have a feeling there are things you have no knowledge of.
I want to believe him, BobbiJo, but his history makes that really, really difficult.
