Local Soccer Tournament - S12 had two games, and S9 had two games, luckily all at the same complex. 2 wins and 2 losses. We then came home and moved S9 into D18's old room. It took us all night, as we were de-cluttering him as we moved... Made everyone dinner late, and went to sleep.
Sunday:
Local Soccer Tournament - S12 and S9 each only had one game. D18 was going to come watch them, but didn't show. "Long night, Mom." Nice. S9 had a birthday party later in the day, and S12, H and I went to a cookout at one of S12's friends homes. Fun party. Mom's in one section, kids out playing, H's in small groups chatting.
Monday:
We all decided to have a Labor Day party. Five families came. Lots of boating, cooking out, wave-runnering, etc... D18 blew in and out within 30 minutes (had errands to run, blahblahblah). She's something.
A few snarky comments over the weekend, but mostly all good. Funny, I've noticed that for about the last month of so, if he gives me a snarky comment or slight attitude, if I dish it right back at him, the mood/attitude quickly dissipates, OR he gives me a quick explanation (almost guilty response) to what caused it. Not sure if I'm doing what works, but at least it's ending it quicker! LOL
S12 has a football game today. H had to leave this am for the day, but will probably make it back for the game.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
