Her conflict may also be driven by something like (1) I DON'T want to be around those insensitive broken bozos but (2) I DO want to look like a "nice person" and/or "good wife" and/or "engaged mother", so I HAVE to.
From everything I know about her, this is it.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.