You are in the minority Ali, and, as Bworl said above, most marriages that arrive here are terminal. Piecing, as you know, is not easy. And...many piecers suffer continually with recurrent indiscretions and issues with lack of trust only to find themselves back where they were months or years later.
Negative comments? Perhaps. But it is the reality that one must be openly conscious about. I stand with Bworl. I support everyone who comes here to save their marriage. Personally, I stayed through 3 indiscretions, so, I 'stood' until I knew in my heart that I would never get past the swarth of destruction that occurred during my STBXW's MLC march to the sea.
In the long run, and in retrospect, I think going into that cheeseless tunnel with a torch and the support of friends to find cheese is a lot less painful than finding out about cheese when you've been told there is none there years later...starts the recovery immediately.
Of course, JMO. LOL. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
