Red, I can't thank you enough. If you don't mind can you tell me what is was like to go throug a MLC? I don't know what he is thinking, and why he doesn't want to be bothered with me or the kids. I don't get any of it.

It has been 10 months now of separation and about 3 months with no contact except when my S tried to take his own life. And one time when he wrote back to our D12.

What did it take for you to come to your senses? If you can help me I would greatly appreciate it.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08