Hello Kittyfish & Sandi2!

[dday101798]

BJ, BJ, BJ....

Despite all that is going on and taking form to happen, I highly suggest you find a route to realese your pent up anger at it. Maybe you are doing so by posting it here (which is absolutely fine), but you need to find an outlet for it, get it out before it trips a fuse soon enough.

Yes it completely bites that she does not see nor care to think of the implications facing before you both should the D go through. I'll tell you, each court date that went by, XW went from crying at the first to ZERO emotion on 'Judgement Day'. She must have downed 300 valuumes or something to stand there, lifeless and cold and profess to he entire room that the last 11 years of her life were so horrid and that there was no chance at things being repaired. Watching that, standing within a few mere feet of her, I damn near broke out in tears wanting to shake every ounce of snese in to her that I could muster, but to no avail, it would have been pointless.

I tell you what tho, with your W and OM on the rocks, brother I'd be making myself out to look completely over her if I were you. How crushing would that be to her ego system? "gee, OM doesn't want me, nor does by LBH, who was supposed to be there to catch my fall, what to do? This isn't what I planned" would be my first guess, maybe I'm way off for you sitch, but in mine there were a couple of occasions where XW and OM were going at it, and me like a dummy screwed up my opportunities and boosted her ego back up to go back to him.

Make sense?

As far as the fallout goes, well, that's where I'm at, financially ruined, posessionless, practically childless, but free from the tyrany of XW's blind insanity. She lives in the aftermath of her own mess. I've said it before and I'll say it again, it has to get really hard sometimes to stare your kids in the face and know you are the responsible party for forever messing up the rest of their lives.