I just can't help but think about our vows, through sickness and health and he is sick right now so that's why I hope and pray that he gets better and then returns. Should I leave this site then? Didn't know that it wasn't for someone that was ill when separated. So I think I messed up by coming on here I guess. And wait to see if he gets better and then come back?
No, you are in a good place. This site is exactly where you need to be. Ten months ago I was in a MLC (mid-life crisis) and left my family. I was not myself at that time, no one could have talked sense to me. I was in a fog. Maybe you could say I was ill. Today I am fighting to save my marriage and my family. Take a look at other situations and stories on this site. Read and learn. Most importantly stay strong and don't lose hope.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
