The rest of the weekend was pretty good as well. More, sex, more ILY (even if I did say it first) and a small discussion when I asked him to let me know if he needed me to back off. Later that night he gave me a kiss, smile and said "go away". I left him be and we were able to go on with our pleasant evening.
He's not saying much about any of it. Not that he usually would.
Things I'm looking for in the future:
1. Continue spending enjoyable time together and talking (not R talk) 2. More affectionate touching 3. H to say ILY first 4. This may be far fetched, but I like him down the road to really show he loves me, wants to be here, is sorry. Just to be grateful that I am still here.
I know that last one is not goal oriented and I am not focused on it. It's just a secret wish. Maybe one day.
So has anyone else noticed the the sex is different after you reconcile? I know he never slept with the OW, so I'm not seeing his new moves, but... Just a little rougher, he's more dominant? - Not sure if that;s the right word. I know I've wanted to break from our routine for a long time, but was too shy. I told him last night how much I liked it. Is the change in style a common thing?
Me 34 H 37 Kids 7 & 4 Married 12yrs, together 17 Kiss/EA lasted 2 weeks. NC since 8/7
