Over the Shock and GALing 6

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Thinker - I think Option 3 is fair to begin with. Let them know, "When you do/say this/that/like that, W feels xyz. Oh sure, you don't mean to xyz but gosh, she really feels that way. Now that you are aware, I know you'll take care." Only fair for them to know. Then...if they persist...Option 1 b/c, you can explain, you won't have your W hurt. Minimizing contact minimizes hurt. Their choice.

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